Myths about sexuality abound. But in this article, I would like to focus on the commonly held view that when couples stop having sex, it is usually because the woman has lost interest or desire. To the contrary, most often, in such circumstances, the man decides to stop sexual intimacy; and he makes this decision […]
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The Power of Menopause
I recently attended a conference, sponsored by the American Association of Sexuality Educators, Counselors, and Therapists (AASECT). The conference, entitled, ‘Bridging the Divide: Shedding Light on the Taboos and Pleasures of Sexuality,’ offered a wide variety of workshops. One of the workshops that I attended was Debra Wickman’s and Saida Desilets’ presentation, ‘A New Look […]
Read MoreHealth Benefits of Sex
It may seem fairly obvious that a healthy, satisfying sexual relationship can result in a stronger and more fulfilling connection with a partner. Less obvious are the potential health benefits that sexual intimacy affords. I will identify some of them which several articles that I reviewed have cited. 1. Boosts the immune system A study […]
Read MoreAging and Sexuality
Partners in long term relationships often report that after years together, they are emotionally closer and better able to enjoy time together. But for some couples, their enhanced emotional bond is a substitute for shared passion and physical intimacy; and sexual intimacy has become routine, and sometimes, non-existent. Buying into the ageism notion that ‘sex […]
Read MoreAssessing Sexual Issues
Sexual difficulties can erode a couple’s relationship and create a personal suffering. And yet, may individuals do not seek professional help because they are uncomfortable sharing information about their intimate life. Adding to feelings of discomfort and shame is the uncertainty about what to expect when seeking treatment from a trained sexuality therapist. To provide […]
Read MoreSex Diagnosed: Common Questions About Sex Therapy
Individuals interested in seeking treatment for sexual difficulties may wonder what the process involves. Dr. Caruso addressed some of the common concerns and questions when she was interviewed by a contributing writer of Belle, a Richmond, Virginia based magazine. In the following segment, Dr. Caruso shares her responses which were first was first published in February, 2011. Belle: As a […]
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